i used the davies craig switch, as i used there fan as well,
there fans are more designed to push then pull, but still work well in both directions,
i also modded this as well (not needed if you dont want want),
the signal wire from the sender to the really was cut, and 2 core 1.13 was run up to the dash with a on/off/on switch
the switch has 3 terminals
1 with 12v+ live from ignition
1 from sender
1 back to relay
the on wire back to really i also added a led light to tell me when it was on,
this way i could either leave it on auto on/off through the sender, or manual and have it on permanently, (if i was being silly in the car)
http://www.daviescraig.com.au/Controller___Switches-ELECTRONIC_THERMAL_SWITCH__12V_ONLY___PART_No__0402-details.aspx